Online Partner Betrayal Trauma Therapy Across Oregon
Partner Betrayal Trauma Therapy in Oregon
Freedom From Partner Betrayal Trauma Anywhere in Oregon
Effective, Online Trauma Therapy Available Anywhere in Oregon
You found the texts, the receipts, the second email account. Now you know things you can’t unknow: where they went, what they said, how long they lied.
Your brain won’t stop running the math. Every late night at the office in the Pearl, every weekend conference, every time they said “just grabbing drinks with coworkers” — you’re recalculating all of it. The person sleeping next to you in your Portland apartment, your Bend condo, your Eugene house, isn’t who you thought they were. And you can’t figure out how you missed it.
I specialize in partner betrayal trauma. I use Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART), an eye-movement trauma therapy that helps my Oregon clients stop the mental replay and get their life back, typically in just 1-5 sessions.
Whether you’re in a high-rise in the Pearl, a quiet neighborhood in Bend, or somewhere along the Coast, we can work together. No fighting I-5 traffic, circling for parking in downtown Portland, or awkward waiting rooms where you might run into someone you know.
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW #L8072) in Oregon, I provide specialized partner betrayal trauma treatment to residents statewide.
After our work together…
The obsessive recalculating stops because your nervous system finally stops treating the betrayal as an emergency happening right now.
You go to Saturday Market and just buy flowers, instead of wondering if they ever brought someone else here.
You sleep through the night instead of waking up to check their phone or scroll through old messages.
The nightmares finally stop and you wake up rested.
You make a decision about your marriage, whether to stay or go, from clarity, not hopelessness, despair, or anxiety.
You can sit across from your partner and have a hard conversation without your heart pounding out of your chest.
The compulsive monitoring stops. You still ask for accountability, but you don’t need to check their location every hour to function.
Accelerated Resolution Therapy for Partner Betrayal Trauma
You’ve probably already tried the traditional therapy option. You might even have a collection of betrayal trauma workbooks sitting on your shelf.
But understanding what happened and why hasn’t stopped the unwelcome images, the 3am anxiety, or the way your body tenses when their phone buzzes.
That’s because trauma doesn't live in the logic part of your brain; it lives in your nervous system. Using Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART), we’ll work directly with your nervous system to heal partner betrayal trauma.
Using guided eye movements similar to REM sleep, ART changes how the memories are stored. You keep the facts, but lose the emotional charge. The betrayal becomes a factual event that happened in the past, not something threatening happening right now.
ART provides a level of complete healing that traditional therapy can’t.
The research:
94% of clients complete ART treatment (vs. 60-65% for traditional exposure therapies)
Significant symptom reduction in an average of 3-4 sessions
Most clients resolve their primary trauma in 1-5 sessions, compared to 6-12 for EMDR or 8-15 for traditional approaches
You don’t have to share the painful details of what happened; you can keep your privacy while still getting the help you need.
The best part is that these changes don’t happen because you’re trying harder or using skills. They happen because your brain has moved upsetting memories to the “completed experience” category, and your nervous system no longer sees these things as active threats.
ART is an investment in your freedom and well-being.
A 90-minute Accelerated Resolution Therapy session is $500.
ART sessions are $500 per session. Each session runs as long as needed to complete the protocol, typically 60-90 minutes. The average length of treatment is 3-4 sessions for most issues.
Total price for most clients: $500-$2,500.
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Online Partner Betrayal Trauma Therapy in Oregon
All sessions happen via secure, HIPAA-compliant video.
You can work with me from your home office in Lake Oswego, your car parked in a quiet corner of a Bend parking lot, or a private room anywhere in the state. Wherever you have privacy and wifi.
Areas I Serve
Portland Area: Portland, Beaverton, Hillsboro, Lake Oswego, Tigard, Gresham, Tualatin, Oregon City, Happy Valley
All of Oregon: Salem • Eugene • Bend • Medford • Corvallis • Ashland • Albany • the Coast • as long as you’re in Oregon during our sessions, I can work with you.
About Allyson Clemmons, LICSW
Oregon Partner Betrayal Trauma Therapist
My specialization in partner betrayal trauma emerged from years of treating affairs as a couples therapist. While couples work was essential for the relationship, I noticed betrayed partners also needed specialized individual therapy that wasn’t readily available. They would only find generic trauma treatment that kept them talking in circles for months, while their nervous systems remained hijacked by the betrayal.
I noticed that partner betrayal creates a specific type of trauma that requires targeted treatment. The neurological impact is profound, and it doesn’t resolve through insight or understanding alone.
Now I exclusively use Accelerated Resolution Therapy to help people move from obsessive investigating and constant triggering to genuine peace in just 1-5 sessions. You don’t need to manage partner betrayal trauma indefinitely. You can actually resolve it.
Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Oregon
LCSW #L8072 (verify Oregon LCSW license here)
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If you already know you would like to get scheduled, please do so using the button below. No need to contact me first unless you want to.
The link will take you to my secure, HIPAA-compliant scheduling tool where you can choose a day and time and pay for your session to reserve it. Within 24 hours, you’ll receive an email invitation to complete your new client forms. Then we’ll meet on your scheduled day!
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Use this form to ask about whether ART is right for your situation, how the process works, or anything else you’d like to know. I typically respond within 24-48 business hours.
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