Online in Massachusetts, Washington State, Oregon, & Florida
Allyson Clemmons, LICSW
Individual therapy for betrayed partners after infidelity
For Betrayed Partners After Infidelity and Affairs
You found out about the infidelity, and nothing has felt right since…
The discovery of infidelity lives in your body. Your sleep is nonexistent, or it’s broken by the same images that interrupt your day.
You’re carrying the betrayal as headaches, stomach problems that didn’t used to be there, or a jaw you can’t unclench.
The discovery lives in your relationships. Your partner is sleeping on the couch, or in the guest room, or you’ve asked them to leave entirely, and the house has a different feeling that you can’t fix by cleaning or by going to bed early.
You sit through dinner with your kids and realize afterward you missed most of what they said because you were turning over the details of the infidelity in your head again.
Your friends mean well, but the ones who haven’t been through this keep telling you to “give it time” or “trust your gut,” and the ones who may actually understand are the ones you can’t tell because they know your partner.
And it’s in your relationship with yourself. You’re checking your partner’s phone, then hating yourself for checking, then checking again because the not-knowing is worse than what you might find. You’re running through the last two years looking for the moments you should have caught it.
Underneath everything, a question: how much of what you thought was real actually was, and what does it mean that you didn’t see it coming?
Healing From Betrayal On Your Terms
One of the most damaging messages betrayed partners receive is that they should be “over it” within an arbitrary timeframe.
Your partner may want forgiveness on their schedule, friends get tired of hearing about it, and family members push for a quick decision about staying or leaving. And the internal pressure can be even louder than the external, because part of you also wonders why you can’t just move on.
But betrayal trauma after infidelity or an affair is not drama, oversensitivity, or a failure to forgive. It is a trauma response to a specific kind of violation, and it does not resolve by willpower or by time alone.
It resolves through treatment that works with how betrayal trauma is stored in the body, not through talking it out or waiting for time to do the work.
About Allyson Clemmons, LICSW
Partner Betrayal Trauma Therapist
My specialization in partner betrayal trauma emerged from years of treating affairs as a couples therapist. While couples work was essential for the relationship, I noticed betrayed partners also needed specialized individual therapy that wasn’t available. They would only find generic trauma treatment that kept them talking in circles for months, while their nervous systems remained hijacked by the betrayal.
I noticed that partner betrayal creates a specific type of trauma that requires targeted treatment. The neurological impact is profound, and it doesn’t resolve through insight or understanding alone.
Now I exclusively use Accelerated Resolution Therapy to help people move from obsessive investigating and constant triggering to genuine peace in just 1-5 sessions. You don’t need to manage partner betrayal trauma indefinitely. You can actually resolve it.
Licensed in Massachusetts, Washington, & Oregon
Registered to provide telehealth services in Florida
100% Online
How This Works…
Treatment is a half-day intensive followed by structured check-ins at 30 and 60 days post-intensive. Full details of what is included are here on the fees page.
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Schedule your intensive
Book your intensive here. You will be prompted to select a date and pay the $1,500 booking deposit to reserve your spot.
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Receive your new client forms via email
You’ll receive an email from me to complete your new client forms within 24 hours of scheduling.
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Heal the betrayal at its root
We’ll meet at your scheduled time for the intensive, beginning with a brief review of what brought you in and moving into the ART protocol from there.
long-term healing from partner betrayal
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long-term healing from partner betrayal —